How do you know ........

I'm asking myself this question lately - how do you know /if your marriage should be done. So,what if you feel like you've had all you can take and your sick of hoping for things to get better...but knowing in your gut, that..take it or leave it..this is what your stuck with

And I just don't know. I know that we have two amazing boys 

And I know that when we do fight

We bring out the worst in each other and often, it's in front of the kids...

And that is NOT ok in my book

I know that - when are not together and it's just the boys and me- 

I can be free and we usually have wonderful times

But I also know that I still love this man 

Love him lots

And our babies live him and us together

But is that enough???

Which one is the worst one - parents fighting- bringing out the worst in each other  and behaving like children sometimes

Or sticking through it and some good goes with some bad? 

Which is the one that will scar them more?

How many times can I handle my husband ignoring me and my feelings

And then I see these amazing boys- and I can't imagine doing that to them..